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Anaya gelince akan sular duruyor<\/strong><\/p>\nAtas\u00f6zlerimizde t\u00fcm akrabal\u0131k terimleri i\u00e7erisinde en olumlu duygu de\u011ferine sahip olan\u0131 tahmin edilebilece\u011fi gibi \u201canne\/ana\u201dd\u0131r. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131, k\u0131zlar\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyen ve a\u015fa\u011f\u0131layan \u00e7ok say\u0131da atas\u00f6z\u00fc bulunmas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131n, anneye gelindi\u011finde akan sular durur. Anne, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z sevgi, merhamet, \u015fefkat timsali olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
– Ana hakk\u0131 \u00f6denmez Baba oca\u011f\u0131, ana kuca\u011f\u0131 kadar s\u0131cak de\u011fil<\/strong><\/p>\n Baba, anne kadar olumlu duygu de\u011ferine sahip de\u011fildir. Anne ve babay\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rmal\u0131 olarak ele alan atas\u00f6zlerinden bu durum daha net anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Birka\u00e7 \u00f6rnek verelim.<\/p>\n – Ana ci\u011ferden yana, baba da\u011fda bir oba Fakat babalara da fazla haks\u0131zl\u0131k etmeyelim. \u00c7o\u011fu atas\u00f6z\u00fcnde baba da evin reisi olarak erkek \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in rol model olan, evin ge\u00e7imini \u00fcstlenen, g\u00fc\u00e7 timsali ki\u015fidir.<\/p>\n – Anan\u0131n a\u015f\u0131, baban\u0131n i\u015fi sorulur Baba erkek \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7i rol modeldir ama baba ile erkek evlat \u00e7eli\u015fkisine vurgu yapan ve babay\u0131 olumsuzlayan atas\u00f6zleri de bulunur:<\/p>\n – Tay babas\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7er K\u0131sacas\u0131 baba oca\u011f\u0131, ana kuca\u011f\u0131 kadar olumlu duygu durumuna sahip de\u011fil atalar\u0131m\u0131zda.<\/p>\n Day\u0131, amcaya g\u00f6re daha olumlu<\/strong><\/p>\n Amca\/emmi ve day\u0131 da atas\u00f6zlerinde s\u0131kl\u0131kla kullan\u0131lan akraba t\u00fcrleri. \u201cAmca, baba yar\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r\u201d gibi amca i\u00e7in olduk\u00e7a olumlu duygu de\u011feri i\u00e7eren atas\u00f6zleri vard\u0131r, ama amcay\u0131 day\u0131 ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131ran ve amcay\u0131 olumsuzlay\u0131p day\u0131y\u0131 olumlayan atas\u00f6zleri de boldur. Day\u0131, aile i\u00e7inde amcaya g\u00f6re daha \u00e7ok sevilen, say\u0131lan ve g\u00fcvenilen bir fig\u00fcrd\u00fcr atas\u00f6zlerinde.<\/p>\n – Day\u0131 ile da\u011f\u0131 gez, emmi ile ba\u011f\u0131 gezme Amca ile day\u0131 aras\u0131nda olumlu duygu de\u011feri a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan day\u0131 lehine olan bu farkl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n, day\u0131n\u0131n anne, amcan\u0131n baba taraf\u0131ndan akraba olmas\u0131yla bir ili\u015fkisi olabilir.<\/p>\n Kadim \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma: kaynana-gelin<\/strong><\/p>\n Atas\u00f6zlerinde s\u0131k ge\u00e7en akrabalardan ikisi de kaynana ve gelindir. Genellikle birlikte ge\u00e7erler ve aralar\u0131ndaki \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma vurgulan\u0131r. Kaynana saf\u0131ndan s\u00f6ylenen atas\u00f6zleri oldu\u011fu gibi gelinin taraf\u0131n\u0131 tutan atas\u00f6zlerine de rastlan\u0131r. Gelinler g\u00fcvenilmeyen, i\u015f bilmeyen, \u00e7ocuk do\u011furmas\u0131 beklenen ki\u015fi olarak tasvir edilirken, kaynanalar da ac\u0131mas\u0131zl\u0131k, fesatl\u0131k, ge\u00e7imsizlik, \u015fik\u00e2yet, k\u0131\u015fk\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k gibi konular\u0131n i\u015flendi\u011fi atas\u00f6zlerinde ba\u015frol\u00fc oynar. Sonu\u00e7 olarak ikisi de olumsuz duygu de\u011feri bar\u0131nd\u0131rm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r atas\u00f6zlerinde. \u0130\u015fte birka\u00e7\u0131:<\/p>\n – Bizim gelin bizden ka\u00e7ar, ele ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7ar Bunu da herhalde tarafs\u0131z g\u00f6zlemciler s\u00f6ylemi\u015f:<\/p>\n – Gelinin dini yok, kaynanan\u0131n iman\u0131<\/em><\/p>\n Kimi zaman en de\u011ferli varl\u0131k kimi zaman d\u00fc\u015fman gibi: Karde\u015f<\/strong><\/p>\n Karde\u015f de atas\u00f6zlerinde s\u0131k\u00e7a kullan\u0131l\u0131r. \u0130nsan\u0131n birinci dereceden kan ba\u011f\u0131 ile ba\u011fl\u0131 oldu\u011fu karde\u015finin \u00f6nemi s\u00f6zlere de yans\u0131r. Elbette farkl\u0131 tecr\u00fcbeler sonras\u0131 atas\u00f6zlerinin kimisinde karde\u015f en de\u011ferli varl\u0131k olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcrken kimisinde ise d\u00fc\u015fmana e\u015f tutulmu\u015ftur. Bunlarla birlikte duygu de\u011feri ba\u011flam\u0131nda bir bilgi i\u00e7ermeyen atas\u00f6zleri de bulunur. Yani karde\u015f kelimesi i\u00e7eren atas\u00f6zleri olumlu, olumsuz ve yans\u0131z duygu de\u011ferine sahiptir.<\/p>\n – Kar\u0131 bulunur ama karde\u015f bulunmaz Olumsuzlar: Eni\u015fte, elti, g\u00f6r\u00fcmce<\/strong><\/p>\n Eni\u015ftenin ge\u00e7ti\u011fi atas\u00f6zlerinde olumsuz duygu de\u011feri dikkat \u00e7eker. Eni\u015fte, tasvip edilmeyen, sevilmeyen, g\u00fcvenilmeyen bir akraba olarak bu s\u00f6zlerde yer al\u0131r.<\/p>\n – E\u015fe\u011fin yoksa eni\u015ften de mi yok? Karde\u015f e\u015flerinden her birinin \u00f6tekine g\u00f6re ad\u0131 olarak tan\u0131mlanan elti atas\u00f6zlerinde fazla kullan\u0131lmaz. Ama ge\u00e7ti\u011fi atas\u00f6zlerinde g\u00fcvenilmeyen, di\u011fer eltilerle iyi ge\u00e7inmesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayan birisi olarak tarif edilmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n – Elti eltiden ho\u015f olmaz, elti ete\u011finden pe\u015f olmaz Kad\u0131n merkeze al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kocas\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131z karde\u015fine g\u00f6r\u00fcmce denir. G\u00f6r\u00fcmceler de ge\u00e7tikleri birka\u00e7 atas\u00f6z\u00fcnde sevilmeyen bir karakter olarak g\u00f6ze \u00e7arpar.<\/p>\n – Elti eltiden ka\u00e7ar, g\u00f6r\u00fcmceler bayrak a\u00e7ar Bald\u0131z olumlu ama\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Fazla ge\u00e7memesine kar\u015f\u0131n tespit edilen atas\u00f6zlerinde bald\u0131za cinsiyet\u00e7i bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131yla yakla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. Bald\u0131z, ki\u015finin e\u015finden sonra da evlenebilece\u011fi kad\u0131n olarak de\u011ferli bir varl\u0131k olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmektedir. Bald\u0131z, atas\u00f6zlerinde her ne kadar de\u011ferli gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de bu de\u011fer onun ki\u015fili\u011fine verilen de\u011ferden de\u011fil, kad\u0131n olmas\u0131ndan kaynaklanan ve cinsiyet\u00e7i bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce bar\u0131nd\u0131ran de\u011ferdir. Bu anlamda bald\u0131z, duygu de\u011feri bak\u0131m\u0131ndan olumlu, yakla\u015f\u0131m bak\u0131m\u0131ndan olumsuz bir duruma sahiptir.<\/p>\n – Bald\u0131z baldan tatl\u0131d\u0131r Kaynak<\/strong><\/p>\n – Yard. Do\u00e7. Dr. Erkan Hirik, \u201cT\u00fcrkiye T\u00fcrk\u00e7esi Atas\u00f6zlerinde Akrabal\u0131k Bildiren Kelimeler ve Duygu De\u011ferleri\u201d, \u0130nsan ve Toplum Bilimleri Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131 Dergisi, Cilt: 6, Say\u0131: 3, 2017, s.1726-1746.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Akrabalara ili\u015fkin \u00e7e\u015fitli duygu durumlar\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131tan \u00e7ok say\u0131da atas\u00f6z\u00fc bulunur. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman verilmek istenen mesaj akrabalar \u00fczerinden verilir. Tabii ayn\u0131 akraba i\u00e7in birbirine z\u0131t duygu durumlar\u0131n\u0131 yans\u0131tan atas\u00f6zleri de bulunur. Toplumun geleneksel olarak hangi akrabaya nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve hangi mesaj\u0131n s\u0131kl\u0131kla hangi akraba \u00fczerinden verildi\u011fini atas\u00f6zlerinden okumak ilgin\u00e7tir. Nev\u015fehir Hac\u0131 Bekta\u015f Veli \u00dcniversitesi Fen-Edebiyat Fak. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":429,"featured_media":26387,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,29],"tags":[2323,3405,3404,3403,3407,3406],"class_list":["post-26380","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bilim-gundemi","category-toplum","tag-akrabalik","tag-amca-dayi","tag-anne-baba","tag-atasozleri","tag-baldiz","tag-gelin-kaynana"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t
\n<\/em>– Ana cennetin k\u00f6\u015fesidir
\n<\/em>– Ana yi\u011fidin kalkan\u0131d\u0131r
\n<\/em>– A\u011flarsa anam a\u011flar, gerisi yalan a\u011flar<\/em><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/bilimvegelecek.com.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/atasozleri-2.jpg\")
\n<\/em>– Ana \u00fcvey olunca baba g\u00e2vur olurmu\u015f
\n<\/em>– Bin koyunluk baban kalaca\u011f\u0131na, bir e\u015feklik anan kals\u0131n<\/em><\/p>\n
\n<\/em>– Ata hakk\u0131 Tanr\u0131 hakk\u0131d\u0131r
\n<\/em>– Baba dostu d\u00fc\u015fman olmaz
\n<\/em>– Ka\u015f\u0131m g\u00f6z\u00fcm bana yeter, babam\u0131n ad\u0131 beni satar <\/em><\/p>\n
\n<\/em>– Baba eder, o\u011ful \u00f6der
\n<\/em>– Koru\u011fu babas\u0131 yer, sanc\u0131y\u0131 o\u011flu \u00e7eker<\/em><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/bilimvegelecek.com.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/atasozleri-3.jpg\")
\n<\/em>– Day\u0131lar ye\u011fenleri y\u00fckseltir, amcalar bat\u0131r\u0131r<\/em><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/bilimvegelecek.com.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/atasozleri-4.jpg\")
\n<\/em>– Can\u0131 oynamak istemeyen gelin \u201cyerim dar\u201d dermi\u015f
\n<\/em>– Gelin ata binmi\u015f, g\u00f6r kime inmi\u015f
\n<\/em>– Su bardakta gelin \u0131rakta g\u00fczel g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr
\n<\/em>– Kaynanan\u0131n en iyisi ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sallar
\n<\/em>– Gelin \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fcr, kaynana d\u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fcr
\n<\/em>– Gelin \u00e7i\u00e7ek, her dedi\u011fi ger\u00e7ek; kaynana y\u0131lan, her dedi\u011fi yalan
\n<\/em>– Kaynana pamuk ipli\u011fi olup raftan d\u00fc\u015fse, gelinin ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 yarar<\/em><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/bilimvegelecek.com.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/atasozleri-5.jpg\")
\n<\/em>– Kanl\u0131m olsun da karde\u015fim olsun
\n<\/em>– Karde\u015f karde\u015fi atm\u0131\u015f, yar ba\u015f\u0131nda tutmu\u015f
\n<\/em>– \u0130ki karde\u015f d\u00f6v\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f, i\u00e7ine deli kar\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f
\n<\/em>– D\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n yoksa karde\u015fin de mi yok? <\/em><\/p>\n
\n<\/em>– E\u015fek kurdu g\u00f6r\u00fcnce \u201ceni\u015ftem geliyor\u201d dermi\u015f<\/em><\/p>\n
\n<\/em>– Elti eltiyle iyi olsa bile, boh\u00e7alar\u0131 \u00e7eki\u015fir<\/em><\/p>\n
\n<\/em>– G\u00f6r\u00fcmce, g\u00f6rmeyeyim \u00f6l\u00fcnce; a\u011flayay\u0131m doyunca<\/em><\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/bilimvegelecek.com.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/atasozleri-6.jpg\")
\n<\/em>– Bald\u0131z\u0131 olan\u0131n, kar\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6lmezmi\u015f
\n<\/em>– Etin i\u00e7inde koyun, erkekler i\u00e7inde kay\u0131n, alt\u0131nlar i\u00e7inde yald\u0131z, kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7inde bald\u0131z<\/em><\/p>\n