{"id":46682,"date":"2020-09-30T21:46:03","date_gmt":"2020-09-30T18:46:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bilimvegelecek.com.tr\/?p=46682"},"modified":"2020-09-30T21:46:48","modified_gmt":"2020-09-30T18:46:48","slug":"demir-pranga-kor-bicak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bilimvegelecek.com.tr\/index.php\/2020\/09\/30\/demir-pranga-kor-bicak","title":{"rendered":"Demir Pranga, K\u00f6r B\u0131\u00e7ak"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ir\u00e9ne N\u00e9mirovsky\u2019yi bilir misiniz? Ben Can Yay\u0131nlar\u0131\u2019n\u0131n K\u0131sa Modern serisine kadar ad\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7 duymam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. 1903\u2019te Kiev\u2019de do\u011fan yazar gen\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131nda, 1942\u2019de Auschwitz toplama kamp\u0131nda hayata veda etmi\u015f,T\u00fcrk\u00e7ede yay\u0131mlanan birka\u00e7 eseriyle de bizlere selam etmekteymi\u015f me\u011fer. Aile Ba\u011flar\u0131<\/em>, \u015fimdiki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n pek \u00e7o\u011funun bilemeyece\u011fi ama bir zamanlar\u0131n orta s\u0131n\u0131f ailelerinde karde\u015fleriyle b\u00fcy\u00fcyen pek \u00e7ok \u00e7ocu\u011fun okurken hissedece\u011fi detaylarla bezeli uzun \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fc N\u00e9mirovsky\u2019nin. Kimi zaman ayn\u0131 yatakta yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, kimi zaman be\u015fi\u011fini sallad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z karde\u015finiz zaman i\u00e7inde size \u00e7ok yak\u0131n olabilir, \u015fansl\u0131ysan\u0131z\u2026 Kimileri ise y\u0131llar ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e \u00f6yle uzak d\u00fc\u015fer ki, en iyi oyun arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n nas\u0131l da bir yabanc\u0131ya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc anlayamaz. Tabii ki karde\u015finiz en yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r ama bunun da baz\u0131 olumsuz y\u00f6nleri olabilir, kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 en iyi bildikleriniz en yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131zdakilerdir. \u0130\u015fte Aile Ba\u011flar\u0131<\/em>\u00f6zellikle karde\u015fler aras\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015fen, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fen ili\u015fkileri temel alan sade, g\u00f6steri\u015fsiz ama etkileyici bir \u00f6yk\u00fc.
\n\u00dc\u00e7\u00fc erkek, d\u00f6rt karde\u015fin her Pazar aile yeme\u011finde bir araya geldikleri anne evleri, hem kendileri hem de e\u015fleri i\u00e7in s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131, bo\u011fucu zamanlard\u0131r. Ancak hi\u00e7 biri de \u201cg\u00f6rev icab\u0131\u201d yap\u0131lan bu toplant\u0131lara s\u0131rt \u00e7evirme cesaretini g\u00f6steremez. Annenin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0203l\u0203 eskisi gibi, \u201cyeme\u011fini ye, karde\u015finle iyi ge\u00e7in\u201d komutlar\u0131yla y\u00f6nlendirip koruyabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesine ra\u011fmen, art\u0131k birer yeti\u015fkin olan evlatlar\u0131 i\u00e7in bu bulu\u015fmalar katlan\u0131l\u0131p geride b\u0131rak\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken mecburi birlikteliklerdir. Bir g\u00fcn annelerinin hastalanmas\u0131 ile bu rutin de de\u011fi\u015fime u\u011frayacakt\u0131r. Her evlat, bir yandan \u00e7ocuklu\u011funa d\u00f6n\u00fcp \u2013 \u015fimdi bu kadar uzak olduklar\u0131 karde\u015fleriyle sanki hi\u00e7 ayr\u0131lmam\u0131\u015flar gibi kenetlenerek \u2013 ge\u00e7mi\u015f g\u00fcnlerin ortak tan\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 konu\u015furken, di\u011fer yandan da kendi hayatlar\u0131na, ailelerine, e\u015flerine olan uzakl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 sorgulayacaklard\u0131r. Karde\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki gerginli\u011fin yok olsa ve ortak bir endi\u015fede birle\u015fen \u00e7ocuklar kendilerini eski g\u00fcnlerdeki gibi hissetse de bu birliktelik ne kadar s\u00fcrebilir? Demestre ailesinin \u00fcyeleri, anneleri Anna\u2019n\u0131n evinde yeniden hi\u00e7 ayr\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f gibi bir birlik hissettiklerinde \u015fimdiki hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n merkezinde oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen e\u015fleri ayr\u0131 bir huzursuzlu\u011fa d\u00fc\u015fer. Bu a\u00e7\u0131dan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n sahiplenicili\u011fi ve kimi zaman erkeklerin fark\u0131nda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 baz\u0131 detaylar\u0131 da ele al\u0131r N\u00e9mirovsky: \u201cBirbirlerine g\u00fcvenle g\u00fcl\u00fcmsediler. “Kad\u0131nlara” diye dald\u0131 Augustin, “g\u00fcvenebilmek imk\u00e2ns\u0131z. \u015eunlar\u0131, \u015fu an\u0131lar\u0131 bile a\u00e7g\u00f6zl\u00fcl\u00fckle dinlerler, sevdikleri adam\u0131n ge\u00e7mi\u015fine dair her bir k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131yd\u0131 toplar, kendileri ile ilgili olup olmamas\u0131na g\u00f6re ya benimser ya da sonsuza dek yads\u0131rlar: “Bu beni tan\u0131madan \u00f6nce miydi? Bu bizden sonra m\u0131 oldu?” Gerisi yoktur. Erkeklerin hayat\u0131, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n onlara ele ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi g\u00fcn ve anda ba\u015flamal\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d
\nAnnenin hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne dair bekleyi\u015f s\u00fcrerken, ailenin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fc Alain, karde\u015flerinden istedi\u011fi borcu yeni bir i\u015fe at\u0131lmaktan ziyade metresinin pe\u015finden \u00fclkeyi terk etmek i\u00e7in istedi\u011fini itiraf eder. Daha \u00f6nce bu i\u015fe yana\u015fmayan a\u011fabeyleri onun \u00e7aresizli\u011fine, istedi\u011fi hayat\u0131 ya\u015fayamay\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr, yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak isterler. \u201cHayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 fena \u0131skalad\u0131k… Zaten s\u0131rf ya\u015fayarak bile \u0131skalamaya devam ediyoruz.\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr her biri.Ancak herkesin hayat\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde mecburiyetleri, sorumluluklar\u0131 ve esaretleri vard\u0131r. Kim bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 onun yerine s\u0131rtlanabilir ki? \u00d6l\u00fcm fikrinin yakla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 vakitte aile ba\u011flar\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlayan Albert ve Augustin, tehlikenin hafifledi\u011fini hissettiklerinde ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde kararl\u0131 olacaklar m\u0131d\u0131r? Ya onlar\u0131n kendisine tekrar s\u0131rt \u00e7evirmeleri ihtimali Alain\u2019in i\u00e7inde nas\u0131l bir isyan yaratacakt\u0131r?
\n\u00d6te yandan anne iyile\u015fmeye ba\u015flay\u0131nca, bir ba\u015fka gerginlik daha ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Zaten bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in bir nebze de olsa hor g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri Mariette\u2019in bundan sonras\u0131 i\u00e7in annelerinin yan\u0131na ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nerdiklerinde Mariette itiraz eder: \u201cBen de var\u0131m sonu\u00e7ta, benim de bir hayat\u0131m var, t\u0131pk\u0131 sizinkiler gibi.\u201d Bu t\u00fcr bir vazifelendirme <\/em>hik\u00e2yenin yaz\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinden 100 y\u0131la yak\u0131n bir s\u00fcre ge\u00e7mi\u015f oldu\u011fu halde \u00fclkemizde de d\u00e2hil olmak \u00fczere ataerkil yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n bask\u0131n oldu\u011fu toplumlarda s\u0131k\u00e7a g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. Malum, hem kad\u0131n, hem de bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in toplumun d\u0131\u015f\u0131na itilmi\u015f, at\u0131l kalm\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcnen ve ancak b\u00f6ylesi bir fedak\u00e2rl\u0131kla kendini g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lan kad\u0131nlar al\u0131\u015f\u0131lagelmi\u015ftir. Aksi durumda, kad\u0131n asi, sayg\u0131s\u0131z, h\u00fcrmet g\u00f6stermeyen yahut nank\u00f6r say\u0131lacakt\u0131r. Peki, ya y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na adayan annenin sorumlulu\u011funu kim alacakt\u0131r?
\nAile ili\u015fkilerini pek \u00e7ok y\u00f6n\u00fcyle ele alan bu uzun \u00f6yk\u00fc, kimimizin kendi ailesinde, kimimizin de \u00e7evresinde g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f oldu\u011fu pek \u00e7ok hesapla\u015fmay\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131yor. Bu \u00f6yk\u00fcyle yazar en yak\u0131n hissetti\u011fimize uzakla\u015fmay\u0131 sadelikle anlat\u0131rken, sanki kitaplar\u0131n her zaman yan\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda olup bizden uza\u011fa hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015fmeyece\u011fini f\u0131s\u0131ld\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Aile Ba\u011flar\u0131, Ir\u00e9ne N\u00e9mirovsky, \u00c7ev. Ebru Erba\u015f, Can Yay\u0131nlar\u0131, 2020, 66 s.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ir\u00e9ne N\u00e9mirovsky\u2019yi bilir misiniz? Ben Can Yay\u0131nlar\u0131\u2019n\u0131n K\u0131sa Modern serisine kadar ad\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7 duymam\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. 1903\u2019te Kiev\u2019de do\u011fan yazar gen\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131nda, 1942\u2019de Auschwitz toplama kamp\u0131nda hayata veda etmi\u015f,T\u00fcrk\u00e7ede yay\u0131mlanan birka\u00e7 eseriyle de bizlere selam etmekteymi\u015f me\u011fer. Aile Ba\u011flar\u0131, \u015fimdiki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n pek \u00e7o\u011funun bilemeyece\u011fi ama bir zamanlar\u0131n orta s\u0131n\u0131f ailelerinde karde\u015fleriyle b\u00fcy\u00fcyen pek \u00e7ok \u00e7ocu\u011fun okurken hissedece\u011fi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":742,"featured_media":46683,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7002,38,513,510,511],"tags":[7030,5261,7029],"class_list":["post-46682","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-198-sayi","category-dergi-sayilari","category-kitapcil","category-surekli-bolumler","category-yayin-dunyasi","tag-aile-baglari","tag-can-yayinlari","tag-irene-nemirovsky"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t