Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu ile 2000 y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131n nisan ay\u0131nda bir Pazar g\u00fcn\u00fc tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f\u0131m. Okul dergisinde yay\u0131mlanmak \u00fczere s\u00f6yle\u015fi talebimizi geri \u00e7evirmedi\u011fi gibi bizi o d\u00f6nem yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 televizyon program\u0131na izleyici olarak davet de etmi\u015fti. Aradan yirmi bir y\u0131l ge\u00e7ti\u011fini fark edi\u015fim ise Do\u011fan Hoca\u2019n\u0131n aram\u0131zdan ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 haberine rastl\u0131yor haliyle. \u0130leti\u015fim psikolojisi alan\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ve T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de en \u00e7ok okunan yazarlardan biri olan C\u00fccelo\u011flu hakk\u0131nda bir \u015feyler s\u00f6ylemek ihtiyac\u0131 duymam\u0131n sebebi o s\u00f6yle\u015fi sayesinde bize ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 iki saattir. Ah nas\u0131l bir heyecan! On yedi ya\u015f\u0131n tela\u015f\u0131na kar\u0131\u015fan t\u00fcrl\u00fc duygu\u2026 Ciddiye al\u0131nacak m\u0131y\u0131m stresine e\u015flik eden, verilen bir g\u00f6revi ba\u015farma ihtimalinin belli belirsiz huzuru\u2026 S\u00f6yle\u015fi \u00f6ncesinde \u0130\u00e7imizdeki \u00c7ocuk<\/em> kitab\u0131n\u0131 okudu\u011fumu hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum, k\u00fct\u00fcphaneme nas\u0131l kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 ise haf\u0131zamda yer etmemi\u015f. Bir sonraki kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmam\u0131z (farkl\u0131 zaman dilimlerinde olsa da) \u0130stanbul \u00dcniversitesi Edebiyat Fak\u00fcltesi\u2019nin karde\u015f koridorlar\u0131nda olmu\u015ftur. Biraz da bu nedenle vefat haberinin yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yank\u0131n\u0131n sosyolojik taraf\u0131na g\u00f6z yummak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayacakt\u0131. G\u00fcnlerdir sosyal medya \u00fczerinden yak\u0131n \u00e7evremin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131mlar bile yetti kalem oynatma gere\u011fi duymama. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla ba\u015ftan belirtmeliyim ki burada Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu ve T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de psikolojiye katt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da katamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyler \u00fczerine s\u00f6yleyece\u011fim bir \u015fey yok. Ben daha \u00e7ok C\u00fccelo\u011flu\u2019nun \u00fclke insan\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma, tan\u0131\u015f olma halinin \u00e7oklu\u011funa ve bu \u00e7oklu\u011fun sosyolojik niteli\u011fi \u00fczerine kafa yormay\u0131 istiyorum. Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu ile 2000 y\u0131l\u0131n\u0131n nisan ay\u0131nda bir Pazar g\u00fcn\u00fc tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f\u0131m. Okul dergisinde yay\u0131mlanmak \u00fczere s\u00f6yle\u015fi talebimizi geri \u00e7evirmedi\u011fi gibi bizi o d\u00f6nem yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 televizyon program\u0131na izleyici olarak davet de etmi\u015fti. Aradan yirmi bir y\u0131l ge\u00e7ti\u011fini fark edi\u015fim ise Do\u011fan Hoca\u2019n\u0131n aram\u0131zdan ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 haberine rastl\u0131yor haliyle. \u0130leti\u015fim psikolojisi alan\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ve T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de en \u00e7ok okunan […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":585,"featured_media":48941,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7354,38,513,510,511],"tags":[7380,7293,1508],"class_list":["post-48939","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-203-sayi","category-dergi-sayilari","category-kitapcil","category-surekli-bolumler","category-yayin-dunyasi","tag-dogan-cuceloglu","tag-gozde-yazici","tag-kitapcil"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t
\nBu yaz\u0131ya haz\u0131rlan\u0131rken Canan Dil\u00e2 taraf\u0131ndan kaleme al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f nehir s\u00f6yle\u015fi kitab\u0131na g\u00f6z atma f\u0131rsat\u0131m oldu: Damdan D\u00fc\u015fen Psikolog<\/em>. Sayfalar aras\u0131nda gezinirken yirmi y\u0131l evvel tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m insan yeniden ete kemi\u011fe b\u00fcr\u00fcnd\u00fc. O g\u00fcne dair hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m en \u00f6nemli \u015fey C\u00fccelo\u011flu\u2019nun nezaketiydi. \u0130ki saatin sonunda yan\u0131ndan ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u00f6zg\u00fcvenimin beni sar\u0131p sarmalad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. Bu noktada C\u00fccelo\u011flu\u2019nun ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim meselesiyle ili\u015fkilendirilme e\u011filimine de de\u011finmeliyim. Gen\u00e7 ya\u015fl\u0131 demeden geni\u015f bir okur kitlesine hitap edebilmi\u015f olmas\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 sordu\u011fumuzda ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z cevab\u0131 payla\u015fay\u0131m bu vesileyle:
\n\u201cBenim fark\u0131nda oldu\u011fum hem konu\u015furken, hem yazarken, \u00f6\u011frenciyken, psikoloji okurken \u2018Bunun anlam\u0131 ne? Burada ne demek istemi\u015f? Hayatta mutlaka bir yeri olmas\u0131 laz\u0131m\u2019 anlam\u0131 olsun, ke\u015ffetmeden b\u0131rakmam. (\u2026) \u0130kincisi herhangi bir bilimsel kavramla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m zaman diyorum ki \u2018Bunun insan hayat\u0131nda mutlaka var olan bir s\u00fcreci ifade etmesi laz\u0131m\u2019(\u2026) Niye okusun bunu diyorum. E\u011fer cevap bulamazsam yazm\u0131yorum. Ama annesiyle babas\u0131yla kavgas\u0131 varsa annesini anlamas\u0131n\u0131, babas\u0131n\u0131 yarg\u0131lamas\u0131na yard\u0131m edilmesi\u2026 Nas\u0131l? \u0130\u015fte, biliyorum bunun cevab\u0131n\u0131. O zaman \u00f6yle ba\u015fl\u0131yorum.\u201d
\nC\u00fccelo\u011flu bu y\u00f6ntem \u00fczerinden ilerlemeyi se\u00e7mi\u015f bir bilim insan\u0131 olarak \u00fclke insan\u0131na ula\u015fmay\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck oranda ba\u015farm\u0131\u015f bir isim oldu. Yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim dinine kurban edilemeyecek kadar \u00e7ok ki\u015fiye ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lmamal\u0131 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu yolla toplumsal k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn in\u015fas\u0131nda da \u00f6nemli bir rol \u00fcstlendi. Toplumun b\u00f6yle isimler sayesinde merhametle, iyi duygularla tan\u0131\u015fma f\u0131rsat\u0131 buldu\u011fu ger\u00e7e\u011fi ile y\u00fczle\u015fmeden evvel C\u00fccelo\u011flu\u2019nun yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 ortayolculukla, suya sabuna dokunmamakla itham etmek b\u00fcy\u00fck haks\u0131zl\u0131k olur.
\nYak\u0131n zamanda verdi\u011fi bir ba\u015fka r\u00f6portajda (Nilay \u00d6rnek, Nas\u0131l Olunur? Podcast) fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n bilgiden \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Genel yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7inde bunu \u201cyapmak ve olmak\u201d olarak de\u011ferlendi\u011fini ve aradaki fark\u0131 kavramay\u0131 \u00f6nemsedi\u011finin alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izerken \u201cben bilen insan olarak de\u011fil ya\u015fayan insan olarak ki\u015filerin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nday\u0131m. Konu\u015furken kendi hayat\u0131mdaki fark\u0131ndal\u0131klar \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde konu\u015fuyorum\u201d diyor. C\u00fccelo\u011flu kendi ya\u015fam tecr\u00fcbesini yazarak aktarmaya \u00e7abalam\u0131\u015f hep, bunu yaparken t\u00fcrl\u00fc teknikler geli\u015ftirmi\u015f. Kitaplar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6ns\u00f6z\u00fcnde uzun te\u015fekk\u00fcr listeleri oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemi\u015fti bize. Sosyal ili\u015fkiler a\u011f\u0131na tak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f insanlara kitap taslaklar\u0131n\u0131 teslim edermi\u015f, onlardan gelen soru ve \u00f6neriler \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irirmi\u015f. Bize \u201ckitap \u00e7\u0131kmadan \u00f6nce be\u015f kere yazar\u0131m\u201d dedi\u011fini de buraya kaydedeyim.
\nBen nezaketin ciddiyetten do\u011fdu\u011funu Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu ile tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131mda \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015ftim ve benim i\u00e7in \u00e7ok k\u0131ymetli bir ya\u015fam tecr\u00fcbesi an\u0131yd\u0131 bu. Deniz Bayramo\u011flu\u2019nun kaleme ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 son kitab\u0131 \u201cVar M\u0131s\u0131n?\u201d da bir nehir s\u00f6yle\u015fi, kitap\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7ok satanlar raflar\u0131nda yerini alm\u0131\u015f durumda. Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu\u2019nu kendi sat\u0131rlar\u0131yla u\u011furlamak isterim:
\n\u201cKendimi geli\u015ftirme s\u00fcreci i\u00e7inde kitap yazmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m; ilk kitab\u0131m\u00a0\u0130nsan \u0130nsana<\/em>\u00a0bu s\u00fcrecin ilk \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr. Geli\u015fim s\u00fcreci i\u00e7inde kazand\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 kitaplar yoluyla payla\u015fmaya devam ediyorum.\u201d
\nYolu \u0131\u015f\u0131k olsun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"